As we have seen in America, racism will simmer away until there is one incident too many and it all becomes too much. This can easily happen in South Africa as well.
On Saturday evening I was
watching a video recording of a speaker at a rally in America, following the
horrific killing of George Floyd by a policeman in Minneapolis.
The young African-American man
was shaking violently as he was trying to contain his pain and anger.
“I’m not ok today!” he said. “I
want to give the black community the right to say: ‘I’m not ok today’. I woke
up this morning with ‘WTF’. I… AM… TIRED!”
He had to pause for a moment to
catch his breathe.
“I have yet to watch the video of
Ahmaud Arbery – it is too much. I have not watched the video of George Floyd.
It is too much.”
At this point his voice broke in
anguish.
“Black people have to go to work
the next day and pretend they are all right. Black women in particular cannot
say anything or else they will be labelled as angry black women. So not only do
people get to piss on the community, the community can’t even say they are
pissed on.”
Referring to Amy Cooper, the New
Yorker who threatened to call the police on Christian Cooper in Central Park,
he said: “That woman was so comfortable in her privilege even though she was
recorded she was certain that nothing would happen to her.
I’m not ok today.
We are trying to deal with tens
of thousands of people dying from Covid, disproportionally so much more in the
black and brown community.
There is no bigger fish to fry
than the institution of racism and bigotry that is pervasive in every
institution across this city, state and country. Period.
So for the NYPD to stand there
and say they don’t have discriminatory institutions or practices that they deal
with, that nothing about them has to do with discrimination or racism, to say,
‘we have bigger fish to fry’… HOW DARE YOU? HOW DARE YOU???”
Overwhelmed by emotion, he could
not speak anymore and walked away from the microphone.
I was in tears, knowing how this
must reverberate with every black person around the world.
At that moment my phone pinged.
Someone had sent me a video clip of a white South African who was having a rant
to camera about the cigarette ban. He was making fun of African accents and how
Africans share “ZIMBA (!) chips – even a small Zimba – 5 guys all hands
to a packet”.
Underneath it the sender texted:
“(This video) summarise our politics very well – ANC has lost its path again”.
Over the last few weeks these
racist videos and memes seem to have multiplied at the speed of light – to the point
where the ANC started naming the people responsible for depicting Dlamini-Zuma
as a chimpanzee.
On Saturday night, as I watched
the South African video in disbelief, the words of the speaker in America that
I had watched a few seconds earlier came back to me: “This (man) is so
comfortable in his privilege that even though he was recorded he was certain
that nothing would happen to him” – in fact he and others watching and
forwarding it – thought it was funny.
Let me again state what should
really be the obvious: Racism can never ever be funny!
And if you still need further
clarity, depicting someone from another race as an animal is racist. Making fun
of someone of another race’s accent is racist. To tell jokes about another
race, is racist. Period.
And if you start a sentence with
“I’m not racist, but…” you are a racist. Stop right there and say nothing else.
It is true that none of us are
completely free of racism. We are born to see difference and in most societies
we grow up believing (consciously or unconsciously) that there is a negative to
that which is different from us.
But this is where the hard work
starts.
We as whites – especially in
countries with deeply painful pasts such as our own, have an additional
responsibility and obligation to put in the work. First, we must not through
our words and actions add to the historical and ongoing pain of black South
Africans.
Secondly, we have to call out
those who do. (We also have to fight systemic racism, but that is for another
column.)
I am aware that it is not easy.
Every time someone sends me something racist or says racist things in front of
me, I know that my response will most probably end in conflict. But I also know
that if I don’t respond it is a silent condemnation of the racism of the other
person.
As Angela Davis said: “ In a
racist society it is not enough to be non-racial, you have to be anti-racist”.
Whites in particularly need to
understand that racist language whether in real life or on social media does
enormous damage. It provides fertile ground for fury and anger to grow. As we
have seen in America, it will simmer away until there is one incident too many
and it all becomes “too much”.
This can easily happen in South
Africa as well. I saw a photograph of a young African-American carrying a
poster saying: “We are not our ancestors. We will f…k you up!” This would
depict the feelings of many young black South Africans as well.
Michele Obama recently said: “If
we ever hope to move past it (racism)….. it’s up to all of us, ….everyone
– no matter how well-meaning we think we might be, to do the honest,
uncomfortable work of rooting it out.”
This demands that we have to call
others out on their racism, no matter how uncomfortable it might be.
So here is my commitment: As I
continue to interrogate my own engagement with race, I undertake to respond to
every racist text, meme, story, comment or action that cross my path by making
it clear that “I’m not ok with this and neither should you be.”
Because as Barack Obama said
recently: “If we want our children to grow up in a nation that lives up to its
highest ideals, we can and must be better.”
– Melanie Verwoerd is a former ANC MP and South African Ambassador to Ireland
See www.melanieverwoerd.co.za
